Tyrone + Kaitlin = Love

Why Do Black Men Date White Women?

This question is interesting because I have been asked about it and answered it a million and one times. There is no true answer as to why black men date white women, but if I had to give my opinion... I would say that it is because todays African-American woman is more independent and dominant than she has ever been before, and on the flipside, todays African-American man is less motivated and ambitious than he has ever been before. With that said, it is in a mans nature to want to be the more dominant figure in the relationship and being in a society that absolute power and dominance is solely dependent on monetary value, the African-American woman reigns supreme in almost every existence of a relationship. But why do they go to white women instead of just going to a colored woman of less economic worth, you might ask? The ultimate goal for us as Americans is what? The American Dream {(Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Property, which was later changed to Happiness, after being recognized as contridictory, due to the writers of the Constitution being owners of slaves (property), sidebar (Message!!haha)}, this dream in the eyes of many African-American men is more obtainable if married to or in courtship with a white women. White women are known to be more submissive than black women and being that they are more submissive, black men do not have to experience the pressures of meeting their expectations as a male figures. You know what I'm talking about. The constant nagging. The belittling and blows given to the male ego ("Get off yo ass and get a job!!). I personally love this approach, I love a woman who can make me want to be my personal best, but sadly, most men are not like that today. My beautiful black sistas, your day will come. Where you can have a figure that your children can look up to. I hate to break it to you but it will be a long time before the black men are back to the way they used to be. Which means there will be more single parent homes and more bi-racial people in the world (not that that is a bad thing). But that chocolate musclar build that makes your knees weak as we speak will slowly be no more. Unless. we teach these young boys today how to be the men they should be... fade... to Black..